The art of sending love. Audio talk transcription
So, let’s call this recording “The art of sending love”.

There’re some reoccurring questions that keep coming up and it comes back to one principle: it’s difficult to understand exactly how this sending love works, and when we first start with it we always look to see if it’s working. Unfortunately, at the beginning we can’t always see it working. {and even though, you know} We step out and we send love to an individual, we expect to see some results, we expect to see that person happier or something change in their life right away. And something does change in their life. Sending love works each and every time, no matter what, but we don’t always see it.

Now I’ll try to explain what happens. Recently somebody wrote something in the talk board and this is a perfect example. This individual was sending love to his or her parents and put a real effort into it and was expecting a change. So, the next day after they came from work this individual asked the parents how they were feeling, if the day was any better but the parents responded: “No, the day was not very good” and they were not feeling very good.

You can tell almost instantly from the vibration that comes off from the writing that this is the tone of those individuals. Some individuals just aren’t that happy. I’ve been there myself. I spent a lot of years just going through life being very unhappy, sometimes even smiling but almost carrying this dark cloud along with me. And in many ways being unlucky, some ways being lucky, but just carrying a bit of “unluck” with me.

Now I’ll try to explain it this way: there’s been some scientific research done by numerous people and the results have always been the same. And here’s one example of the test they did: they took people, ones said that they were lucky and some that felt they were unlucky. Those people that said they were lucky people they found them to be actually happier people, the ones that said to be unlucky, they found that these people were not quite as happy and they were always leaning towards looking at the negative of things.

So, what they did is: they knew that the person, each person will take a certain route on this particular day and what they did is they put money in their pathways in numerous different ways. And I’ll just explain one: putting money in a pathway exactly where they gonna walk like a twenty dollar bill so they could not miss it. The lucky people found the money over ninety percent of the time, the unlucky people, the ones that aren’t that happy, very rarely found the money. They’d step around it, they would change routes instantly and literally go around the money or a gust of wind would come up and blow the money just out of their path seconds before they would get there. Things would just kind of go a mess.

So, then they said: “Well, this is something is not quite right here. It’s almost like the Universe in itself, the conditions that happen arrange things so that this money doesn’t end up in their hands”. Yet for the lucky people it worked exactly the opposite way: one instant a gust of wind picked up the money and blew it up in the air into the person’s face so they couldn’t miss it.

Now, what they found is that even when they made absolutely sure that the unlucky person got the twenty dollars and at the end of the day they would asked the person about their day, these people wouldn’t even mention that they received free twenty dollars. They were so busy focused on all the negative stuff that happened during the day that that’s what they explained and there was no mention of anything really good that happened in that regard and the twenty dollar bill is just one example. They did many other things, but each time they questioned the unlucky people they had nothing to say about it, they wouldn’t even mention it. Yet the lucky people – that’s the very first thing they mentioned.

And like I explain, when you think about something you talk about it, you think about it, you feel it, the Universe gets that message and creates more of it. So, the lucky person says: “Ha! First thing that happened is - I got twenty bucks today! How do you like that! Free! I didn’t have to do anything – it just flew right in my face!” And there’s a really strong, powerful feeling of that. That feeling is what the Universe senses and it creates more of it. “Oh, you receive money, you like receiving money? Well, I will set up coincidences, investments, high paying jobs, all kinds of things for you to bring in more money”.

Yet the other person who considers oneself unlucky, who has a little bit of a dark cloud carrying around they talked about and felt the negative things that happened that day. And so the Universe sets up the coincidences to create more of it.

Now, when we send love, when we start with it, the first thing we really should do is send it to ourselves. That’s the very first priority: is radiate it out, open ourselves up, bring ourselves into a good feeling, start thinking about positive things because as you send love you increase the power of attracting everything to you. So you wanna make sure you think about all the things that you really like, all the positive things at the same time. So that you’re really engaging the energy. It’s sort of like starting up your car engine having a big engine in it but you’re not gonna actually drive anywhere. So, what you want to do is think about the positive things, force yourself on a positive side, force yourself, if you have to, to think of all the positive things that happen during the day. And while you’re radiating out love then you by a hundred times, a thousand times increase the power of attracting that back towards you.

So, when we send love, let’s say to an individual like that, what happens? So, here we are, we’re radiating out love, we see love going towards them, we want them to live a happier life. But we don’t focus so much on that. Just that their life is improving, that they’re getting happier but mostly we wanna focus on just radiating the love out, letting it flow to them, not so much really pushing it at them, just let it flow there and enjoy that, and let it be. And trust in your own mind that things will improve.

Now, the Universe reacts instantly, that energy reacts instantly to go out and do something. And it could have very easily brought twenty dollars into their life laying right in front of them where they’re walking. But, because of their own mental attitude, seeing the negative, feeling the negative constantly and not really moving out of that, they would’ve missed the twenty dollars. Perhaps.

A lot of times when you send love, it’s so powerful that coincidences and circumstances are lined up in such a way that they probably won’t miss the twenty and they’ll actually receive the twenty. But you know what, at the end of the day when you ask them, they’re not gonna tell you about the twenty dollars. They’re gonna say: “No, my day wasn’t very well, I’m tired, I’m not feeling very well”. They’re down, they’re depressed. That boost that they’ve received wasn’t enough to counteract their own thinking patterns. And you can’t do anything about that.

That’s very simply the way it is. It’s sort of like taking a bug out of a jar of water and having it fly right back in, and you lift it out, and it flies right back in, and you lift it out, and it flies right back in. At some point we have to sort of let go and this is where the sending love works the best because you sort of let go, at the same time you allow the love to flow to them. But you let go of it.

Because the more you try to check how things are working (“How is your day? Is your day better now? Is your day better now?”), it’s almost in a sense like you’re focusing yourself on a negative side and you’re seeing the negative side, the down side. When you truly have faith and trust in it and believe that it will improve their lives, then you don’t have to even ask. You just know it well. You may not see it, like I said, and you may not hear it but on a continuous basis maybe, if they receive that twenty dollars every day for ten days, maybe a little light will go on finally. And they’ll open up a little bit and say: “Wow, you know, money seems to be coming to me better” and you see now they’re starting to be on a positive side. Now they’ve set out a positive frequency and they’ve allowed and agreed a little bit and the Universe says: “Yeah, I hear you clearly” and more starts to come in.
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And this is just one example, this can be happen in many, many different ways. They could’ve been at work and someone did a very kind thing. They may not even know about it. See, when you radiated out that love, another co-worker might’ve gone to the boss and said: “Hey, Fred is doing a fantastic job, you know, he’s always on time and he’s very helpful of everyone else”. Now, no one else would know about that but it was done and it has an effect on the entire circumstances because the boss then feels better about that person and changes his attitude or her attitude a little bit.

See, it all begins and starts to flow wherever there’s a space where that love can go in and make a difference, it will start wherever it’s allowed. If a person totally shuts down, in every single faucet, so that when you send love out, you radiate it out, there’s no possibility of allowance of any change, then there isn’t because there is the thing called freedom. We have freedom in this Universe to say “No” to whatever. And the person can say “No”. And when they’re in a state of total unhappiness like that, they are saying: “No”. That is what that unhappiness is.

Now, most of the time, you know, we say “No” in certain areas and still have a bit of an allowing in other areas and that’s where it will slide in and begin to make a change. It’s like a garden that’s been[, you know,] very dry, not enough water and a little bit of water comes in. It doesn’t really soak into the ground just a few places here and there, but it’s a start. It starts to soften the ground a little bit and the next time {when} there’s some more water, the ground is softened a bit and it absorbs the next small rainfall a lot easier, and the next one a lot easier and then so it slowly starts and it builds and… Hey, with people one or two years is not a long time. If a person that’s been carrying a dark cloud around for thirty years, you’re not gonna leave that cloud in one day – that’s just not gonna happen. I mean, a lot of circumstances may change but the person will still hang on to the cloud, that’s the thing. That’s what makes it so difficult to change. It can change in one day but most people don’t allow it. Because this is familiar.

Whether things are good or bad, a lot of time we hang on to them because they’re familiar. And we hang on to bad things because they’re familiar. At least it’s something we know. In other words, it’s always changing and, you know, things you aren’t sure even… something bad to hang on to is better than nothing sometimes. Even to know that something not so good will happen today is better than nothing, not knowing anything. Sometimes we hang on to the familiar because it at least gives us something to hold on to and so it takes time to release that hold. It’s a slow, long process, but if the person has patience, continues to send love and just trusts, things will improve over time. Allow it a year[, you know,] if [maybe] that’s what it takes, I try not to put a timeline on these things. I just allow it to be, because I realize that by putting a timeline on it I’m really putting pressure on it for myself and I’m saying: “This has to change in this amount of time” and it really doesn’t.

I see e-mails and writing from individuals who have carried a bit of a cloud around and felt a bit unlucky and they make the effort of sending love and radiating out love and they go: “I don’t feel anything. I don’t feel any different, I don’t see any changes”. Well, that [right there] is making a statement and making a statement to the Universe. And if they were radiating out some love over a three-day period, I know, things have changed. I know, something has changed. Somewhere. They are not recognizing it, paying attention to it or probably not even seeing it. Like I said, it can be working behind the scenes with other people and other circumstances that we don’t even know. It could be as simple as the person might have got laid off but the Universe started making changes outside of what we can see with other individuals and things got rearranged and the person still has the job. He wouldn’t even know that all this was going on, but those changes remain. They might have driven home and got into an accident, but because of the radiating out love and beginning the process, the circumstances were changed, the timing was changed and he avoided the accident. But they would never have known that he was going to be an accident or the car would have gotten broken in two, or something would have gotten stolen, or something would have gotten missing, all kinds of things that we don’t even know about begin to change. And we don’t always see them. That’s the whole point.
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We’re always looking for the evidence of everything. In this world when you make a change and you always look instantly for the evidence, that’s gonna be a failure. Doesn’t matter what you do. I don’t care, if you work in a stock market, you can buy stocks and you can stare at it for the next fifteen minutes, it’s not gonna change anything. It’ll either go up or it’ll go down. But just because you’re staring at it, it does not make a change instantly. So you have to kind of allow the thing to flow. And if you’re a bit of unhappy person, it’s got to be given a time to flow in. It will work on the outside where you can’t see it or you can’t have an effect on it or you can’t really stop it by pointing at it and criticizing it, so it will work on the outside and start making changes in your life. And slowly that will work closer and closer to you or then maybe you can start seeing some of the things that happen. But that will take time.

And before that thing happens, some changes in your thoughts and feelings have to change ‘cause that’s in a sense is our work. It’s our responsibility to start changing our feelings. If we just sit here in a miserable mood and start radiating out love that is not gonna change our miserable mood, because what we’re saying by that is: “I radiate out love but my mood is not gonna change”. We have to actually change it by changing our thoughts. Otherwise it’s just playing tug-of-war with the Universe. We turn the switch off, the Universe tries to turn the light on, we turn it off, Universe on, we turn it off… It doesn’t do any good.

So we start by thinking about the positive things: “What’s it like to receive a free twenty dollars? How good is it feel?” Forget about all the other stuff, start thinking about positive stuff. What that does, it allows the work that the Universe is doing with your radiating out love and all that energy that you’re radiating out, that love that you’re sending out. When you make a change inside, you think of a big circle, huge circle, like a bubble – not really a bubble but a circle of lines around it. You’re in the inside. When you start sending love things begin to change way on the outside circle – that’s the first place the love starts to work because that’s where its allowances are. 2018 {And that’s where you can really metall, so it can start to make changes there.} As the individual makes changes him or herself, then the love can work closer and closer inside the circle. And we make that changes by looking at positive things, looking at things that [, say, that] we want, the life experiences that we want and imagining them as if we already have them so much so that it gives us a good feeling. See what that does? That creates allowing. That thought, that feeling does not do the creating. There’s some confusion out there of other things that have been written and so forth but that has no energy, that doesn’t do the creating at all. And love that you radiate out now flows through you – that does do the creating. But what you do with your feelings does the allowing. See, now all of a sudden as you do this you begin allowing the love you’ve radiated out to create that for you.

It’s sort of like wanting a relationship. So really nice loving fun relationship, one that you can think about during a day and it makes you happy and when you think about it you let go of all other worries and it’s one way you can trust the person, you never have to worry about the person if they go out of town. It doesn’t matter. You don’t have to worry about them doing anything it’s just you feel safe. That’s a kind of relationship, [let’s say,] that you want. So, you start imagining that. At the same time you begin working with radiating out love. That love starts to create that. And now because you’re thinking about this relationship and feeling it, you’re allowing it, the Universe gets a very clear signal, that love that you sent out has a very clear signal of what you want to create. See, you’ve made a statement with your feeling, of what you want. And at the same time because you’re already feeling it, you’re allowing it and so that love can create it and bring that individual to you, and you to that individual.

And at the very beginning the love will work on the outside circle finding that person, lining them up, but they won’t quite reach you until you do the allowing. The more you do the allowing, the closer that person comes. So, now that person might be in the same city, you do some more allowing and pretty soon that person starts hanging around in the same neighborhood, you do some more allowing and pretty soon that person starts shopping in the same stores, you do some more allowing by practicing it, the feeling of having that relationship as if you have it, have the actual feelings of it and pretty soon that person is now standing beside you. See, you’ve allowed it.
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There’s a radiance that comes from you that actually holds things back when you’re not in the right vibration for it and the right feeling tone for it, when you say “no” by looking at relationships and saying: “I’m not good enough for relationships, relationships don’t work for me. Other people have them but I’ll probably never have a good one like that. Even if I did have a good one like that, it probably wouldn’t last anyway”. That’s a feeling. There’s a feeling radiating out when I say that and that feeling is going towards the love. This sort of love is trying to create something wonderful for you despite what you’re saying. But it can’t bring it to you. It’ll kind of hover around you at a point where probably you will never even see it or sometimes the allowing is enough where we can actually see it. In other words when it gets close enough you’ll see it in other people, you’ll see other people have it – that tells you that it’s already close enough that you visually can see it.
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It’s sort of like saying you want more money and as you begin to allow it, the Universe is creating it for you of the energy that you’re sending out, that love that you’re radiating out is creating it, is bringing it towards you, the first thing you gonna see is other people with it. All around you other people will have that kind of financial wealth and then it gets a little closer and you’ll see more people and those people will become closer to you. In other words, maybe you want just read about them or see them on TV, now you might actually see them physically and then, as you practice more, that comes a little closer and then pretty soon you’re meeting them physically, maybe even talking to them and then a little bit more, and then you’re having more interactions with them and all of a sudden something starts to click, because now everything is close enough, the Universe can give you the circumstances, events and suggestions from other people, like one of those people might say: “Hey! There’s a job offer over here and I think it pays about three times as much as what you’re paying now and I can go talk to the fellow and put a word in for you. How about that?” There’s your beginning. But first you have to allow it. (26:07)

So, how we do allow it? Come on, how do we allow it? We allow it by imagining it, pretending it so much so, that to us it’s there. Whether it’s not there or not doesn’t make any difference. Forget about the world - the world is not real anyway. It is an illusion. A lot of people say: “We can’t go around pretending”. The world you see is pretending. It’s not real, folks. So, start pretending that you have that which you don’t have which you want -- as if you have it, so that you can start the allowing. And what’s the sending love for? Well, it’s your creating process.

So, do right this: take a few moments, radiate out some love, pretend you have what it is you want, radiate out a little bit more love and just stay in a state of having it. If you try to improve your parents’ life, well, this is what you would do: you would pretend their life is the way you think it should be. Now it will probably never be the way you think it should be, but you can make it a happier life for them, more abundant for them and the more they begin to allow through the process, the better and better and better it gets. So, you would imagine them very happy, very successful at work and no matter what you hear from them you would just ignore it. This is what you’d see and feel. This is what you would feel. At the same time you would radiate out love, you will create the circumstances for them, you are the one that now creates the allowing for them. You see, you’re starting the allowing process for them, because you live perhaps with them, around them, you’re close to them, even though they aren’t at the allowing state yet – you are. And that in itself makes an opening. And because you’re their son or daughter, or they love you, there’s this connection.

And it’s like an individual oneness. And when you have that individual oneness between a group of people like a family, of really, really close friends or loved ones -- you can start doing the allowing for them and the process will move a lot faster but you have to be in that state. So, the next time you write something you best write: “How wonderful it is!” and not be complaining: “Oh, it’s not working, I don’t see a difference, I don’t know if it’s gonna work”. Well, you’ve just made a statement to as many people as will read that letter. If ten thousand people read that letter, you’ve given a message to ten thousand people. Never mind just those people, the Universe, but each one of those people will have a feeling at that moment. That feeling goes out. And that feeling becomes an added resistance. If you tell the entire world of your bad luck in your crappy life the entire world for that few seconds while they hear that will have a feeling and will help you create that crappy life.
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Now if you turn that around and instead write little notes, and letters, and e-mails and stuff saying: “How wonderful it is, how incredible it is!, how happy my parents and friends are, my lover is, my daughter, my son” - each time someone reads that they add to that. They add to the allowing that brings them together. And in a sense they help that individual allow those very circumstances to come to them. Does that help? Understand? You can’t be in a situation and write someone that a situation hasn’t changed. You have to be so immersed in it that I don’t care what it is, [but] what you see -- is what you want. That’s all you feel and that’s all you see. Everything else doesn’t matter. Just what you want. How you want to feel, how you want to experience your life. That’s where you gonna put your mind and your heart is gonna be set on radiating and flowing that energy that creates the entire Universe. It just gonna flow through you and create all that. So, your mind stays on what you want. I don’t care what’s happening, I don’t care of an atom bomb blows up in your backyard. You only see and feel in your mind that what you want to experience. And your heart does one thing - it flows the energy. That’s it.
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See, there’s two very simple things. I know, it’s not so easy at the beginning and it takes time and practice and I made a lot of tapes, book called: “Money is love” for you to put you right through the whole process, so you can read exactly what a person goes through as you go through the process. I can’t make it any [more] simpler, easier to understand. I’ve put myself into the practice of doing it and showed you how I live my day-to-day life, how I think, how I change my feelings towards having what I want as if I have it and at the same time in a sense radiating out love, flowing that energy out.

Those are two jobs: focus on what we want until our feeling is there, feel it until our feeling is there. And at the same time allowing the love to flow through us which creates everything. And this is how we become these incredible glowing suns, you know, like radiating out love and at the same time fully allowing.

When you’re fully radiating love and fully allowing, so much incredible stuff happens on it every day – you can’t even keep up with it. It just will almost drives you crazy. Some days I have to physically slow it down because it’s too much for me. There is an odd thing to say, isn’t it? “Too much good for me”. Well, this is a kind of an individual I am. I like to be happy but I also like to be sad sometimes. I like to be angry sometimes, I like to be irritated sometimes – I like all of those feelings. I don’t like to be just incredibly happy.

Well, actually, I am incredibly happy because I’m incredibly happy when I’m irritated because it’s a feeling now. It’s a feeling separated from me. It’s one I have a choice whether I want to feel it or not. And now it just becomes an experience so I’m happy either way but I have direction on how I feel and what I feel and how much I feel. And it’s a wonderful feeling of freedom, of joy to have that, to build it, to direct my life in so many ways.

And it’s so simple. I just put my mind on what I want as if I have it. Some things, [you know what,] I forget that I didn’t even have them. And I found that the experience of pretending that I had them was already enough… Of course I end up getting them anyway but by that time I’ve already experienced [that] having them so much that it wasn’t really that much necessary to have it any more. Cause I’ve gotten so good at it’s still nice to have them but I’ve already gone through the experience and sometimes even moved to something else.
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Anyway, I hope that explains some more about sending love and… Have fun and trust. Trust in something, believe in something. I mean, if you gonna believe in something, why not believe in this? You know, there’s a lot of things you can believe in in this world. Some things are really worth of believing in and I think, what I just explained to you is worth believing in, no matter what – what better could you have, or could you find or believe in -- than that?

July 18, 2006

This Klaus Joehle audio talk was transcribed by Maria Faraonova.

Audio, 6 MB